Many relationships and marriages have ended because one of the partners cheated which results in heartbreak and disappointment. Relationship problems are often caused by lack of trust between the partners in the relationship.
Maintaining balance is crucial for a relationship to succeed. This means that you should never doubt your partner if there is no particular reason for that, but only if you notice he/she is acting suspiciously. However, this does not mean you should attack your partner without having evidence for your doubts.
And in order to find out whether your partner is sleeping with someone else you should pay attention to some of the following signs:
1. New things in bed
It can be a good thing, that your partner have read about a new thing that you can try out in your bed, or some friend told about it so your partner wants to surprise you. But in some cases it can mean a bad thing – your partner has learned that from sleeping with somebody else.
2. Random gifts
Yes everyone wants gifts but in some cases the reason for the gift is not love, but trying to cover something up.
3. Taking a shower immediately after they get home
If you notice that lately your partner after work immediately goes to take a shower, than it can be indicator that the partner wants to hide something from you – another person’s scent.
4. Pay extra attention to their looks
If lately your partner is paying more attention to their looks and the way they dress, then something is wrong and you should find out what is the reason for that. Also if they are paying more attention to grooming, they definitely are seeing with somebody else.
5. Taking too long to answer texts
If you start waiting for your partner to text you back much longer than before, it can mean something bad. Also if you notice that your partner added a secret to lock his/her phone then you should better ask her/him why she/he has done that.
6. Less often initiation of closeness
If your partner reduces or stops initiating lovemaking relations with you, then it can be a sign that your partner is getting the pleasure elsewhere.
7. Continually working late
One of the oldest excuses and you have seen this in many movies. But if your partner lately has started to work late and to spend more time at work it can be indicator for something else. You can find if your partner is really working late only if you call the boss.